Saturday, June 24, 2006, 05:08 AM - Relationship Advice Articles
Adding Spice to Your Relationship
Is your relationship in a rut or getting stale? Need something to spice it up?
Plan a romantic rendezvous. Add excitement by making the encounter something you wouldn't normally do or someplace you wouldn't normally go. It doesn't necessarily have to be spontaneous. A planned encounter can be just as exciting.
Need some ideas? Try one of these:
1. Nooner at a Motel.
Meet your love at a motel on your lunch hour for some quick fun. Make sure you can get a room though. You don't want to waste time driving from place to place.
2. Pick-up at a Bar.
One of you go into an establishment and sit at the bar. The other can come in and try to pick you up. It's sure to cause some heads to turn and get the heart racing. Don't make it easy. Have fun with word games and pick-up lines.
3. Treasure Hunt.
Send your partner a series of notes with directions on them. Have your love find your secret treasures -- such as a garter belt, lacy bra, sheer stockings, etc. -- and the final treasure is finding YOU.
If you and your partner think it through, I'm sure you can come up with some interesting scenarios of your own. Make a list and try one a month. You'll both look forward to it, and your excitement will build with the anticipation of each new rendezvous.
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( 3.1 / 2759 )Saturday, June 24, 2006, 03:03 AM - WebCams
After launching a WEBCAM PORTAL i decided to review the most popular webcam sites
guess i will start with LiveJasmin
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Livejasmin
LiveJasmin is run by an Eastern European company and that's why they have many
Russians and Eastern European cam girls, hardly any Asian.
(If you like Asians, you may want to go to imLive or Cams.com )
As I found out LiveJasmin used to call Jasminlive and has a lot less girls.
Maybe there was new investment, new boss to support the site to grow.
Now that they have nearly 400 chathosts online, LiveJasmin has definitely
separated themselves from the category of 2-studio-girl-online small sites.
Getting to the free chat is easy:
Go to the who's online page of Livejasmin.
Choose a girl and click on her free chat button. Choose a nickname and you can start chatting.
No credit card. No need to give out your email address. Simple!
And no matter you are straight, gay, lesbian, whether you like hardcore couple shows, fetish-SM or mature, you can find it in Livejasmin. Also, under category 'mature', it's not limited to ladies only. I've seen a mature guy there. Though Livejasmin has no sophisticated search engine where you can pick the girls by age, build, ethic group, hair color or things like. They categorize the models (or what they call 'performers') into the following categories:
Girls, Lesbian, Couples, Fetish-SM, Mature, Boys, Video
Performers Awards and Hall of Fame are not new.
In fact, I think imLive has implemented this better than LiveJasmin because in imLive's who's online page, chathosts who have won an award are marked and indicated. As a viewer, it makes life easier to choose.
Not so popular with the non-award winners I suppose, as they can have just as wonderful body and are just as wonderful teasers.
Dalila
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( 2.9 / 2686 )Thursday, June 22, 2006, 05:45 PM - Relationship Advice Articles
The Five Stages Of Love
What are the stages of love? Love develops between two partners in several different levels. For love to endure, each level is important.
Let's break it down into five stages:
(1) attraction, (2) romance, (3) passion, (4) intimacy, & (5) commitment.
ATTRACTION - a positive response to a person beyond friendship. This can further be broken down into two areas: (a) physical attraction & (b) emotional attraction.
a. Physical Attraction - happens when your body reacts to another person. Heart rate increases; temperature rises, palms get sweaty; stomach flutters; throat tightens; etc. This is the most superficial of "loves" on one level, but one of the most powerful on another. It represents the first contact.
b. Emotional Attraction - develops next if the circumstances are right. After being drawn to a person physically, you then begin to converse. If you find you have things in common -- hobbies, ideologies, career, education, or some other common ground -- then an emotional attraction starts to form.
An emotional attraction can also occur even when a physical attraction does not. And in this case, the bond may even be stronger between the two who connect, since no preconceived notions based on physical appearance has occurred.
ROMANCE - essentially an act of trying to influence or gain favor of another by lavishing attention or gifts upon them. There are two type of romance: (a) selfish romance & (b) selfless romance.
(a) Selfish Romance - occurs when you do romantic acts solely for the purpose of gaining something for yourself -- like to get gifts, to impress someone else, or even simply for sexual favors whether your partner is interested or not.
(b) Selfless Romance - occurs when you do romantic acts for the enjoyment and pleasure of your partner. You receive your enjoyment and pleasure through their happiness.
Selfish romance (& love) will quickly die out. Selfless romance (& love) will endure. Because romance is an "act," many couples who have been together a long time take it for granted. With a conscious effort, it can be rekindled.
PASSION - a desire for another person, which has grown to an intensity that can't be ignored. This is often where an emotional relationship turns into a physical relationship. The passion stage is very important. It's a plateau.
From here, the relationship will fork into two roads, and the couple must decide which path to take. The relationship will either burn itself out or will move onto the next stage.
INTIMACY - a close association with another person of the deepest nature. You share you thoughts, your feelings, your dreams. In true intimacy, there is nothing that you cannot tell this person (though we often hesitate because of our own unfounded fears).
Intimacy is not total in one swoop. It is a developing process, which never ends. If you can't establish intimacy with your partner, your relationship may work for a while, but is unlikely to endure throughout the years.
COMMITMENT- a pledge to remain true to your mate throughout good and bad times. Commitment is easy when times are good. Commitment can be extremely difficult when times are bad. Learn to ride out the bad times.
If you've made it this far, why give up? Listen to each other, be willing to compromise, and remember why you got together in the first place.
Love is worth the effort ...
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( 3 / 2354 )Wednesday, June 21, 2006, 03:33 PM - WebCams
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Let me start with several visitors feedback i found online:
imLive is a very active webcam site in the way that they often have theme party during the weekend when participating girls will dress according to the theme/kink. So no matter you like bondage, teen in school uniform, French maid, ladies in boxing outfits, they may have a party for it. (Judy)
If you are both viewer and exhibitionist, you can even turn on your webcam at home and allow the chathost to see you. This is what they call "CamToCam". (Tomy)
There are plenty of girls who will use sex toys, so you can get the full view of all the action. (Doctor)
REVIEW
If you check out imlive you'll find a very large selection of hosts, this is really one of the largest sites out there.
Browse a range of subjects, not just adult chat
Community-based video chat site Imlive is unique in that it almost seems like a non-adult chat site at first. But once you are inside you will see one of the best-run video chat/webcam sites anywhere ... and with some of the best performers - and rates - of any site.
Imlive is a community chat site offering advice in numerous categories - mostly non-adult, but the sex-related section is what we are talking about here ... They offer a huge selection of performers with fan clubs, video archives, e-mail, alerts, favorites lists and icons showing which camhosts have fast connections and high quality video feeds.
The first thing I noticed about Imlive is that it appears to be a mainstream chat site, however, you'll quickly discover that the adult section is easily their bread and butter. Like iFriends and CamContacts, these are mostly home-based performers
Once you browse through the Girl Alone and new Shy Girl Alone sections, you'll see there are quite a collection of sexy camhosts available. The downside, like all community-based sites with home-based camhosts, is that the quality can suffer if the connection is not up to par. You'll also find that some hosts are far better performers than others!
On the downside, the search function isn't great and the navigation can leave you lost at times. But the variety of performers, ability to free text chat, post messages, photo/video gallery's and icons denoting high speed connections and good quality video, make up for it.
Of course it's the adult areas that have the most going on and which I'm interested in, and there is plenty in there believe me. Under a category called "Sexual Stress-Relief Hosts" -- which is pretty direct -- they have subcategories a bit like camcontacts. There are "Girl Alone" (shy or not) and "Girl and Guy (Couples)" through to the really special areas like Fetish.
Girls alone can have hundreds in that category so there are search filters to let you find just the girl you want -- teens only or Asians or blonds for example. Not as many as ifriends but still plenty.
One big feature is their "top hosts" where they have "Hall Of Fame & Award Winners". And even a special category for the five star winners.
That's right they spend a lot of time ranking girls -- though you get to do that after every show. Of course this really motivates the girls to put and and please me because they know if they do I'll give them a vote and that helps get them on the top hosts list.
It's worth checking out the hall of fame for the really top girls.
Imlive Profile page
When it comes time to get serious you gotta buy some credits. Billing is via ccbill like lots of companies so your credit card bill will say "Ccbill" on it.
Basically you wanna buy credit it blocks of $10. Don't buy too much coz credits expire and their aint no discount anyway for buying more.
Then you are ready to play -- feel free to drop straight into video chat. The first 20 seconds are free which is great coz you can check the girl out and make sure she's decent looking before getting down to serious stuff without spending anything.
They do a "Happy hour" thing where top girls are rotated through what is basically a discount area. At any one time between 2 and 8 girls are working happy hour and chats are cheap at only 1.48/min but are not private; up to 3 viewers can chat with the girl at the same time.
Customer service is pretty good, you can call toll free to their customer support (from just about anywhere, not just the US).
Even without credit you can see some of the galleries of each girl, but once you have got some $ in your account -- even 10 bucks -- you can then see ALL the galleries.
The video uses an ActiveX control, so first time you do video you are going to have to approve an ActiveX from "Sobonito Investments" -- that's the name of the company who owns imlive.
This gives you video -- two ways if you want it -- plus audio.
Only technical problems I've found are that some of the pages fail to load and you have to hit refresh to make it come up. That's just while browsing, the video at imlive works fine all the time I've tred.
Features:
- In August, 2005 Imlive released 5 new versions of the site in Français, Español, Deutsch, Italiano and Portuguës. Now you can sign up, browse and chat in your native language.
- The Multi-Action Live Viewer which allows you to watch multiple live shows at once.
- Live chat rooms are all Flash-based now which generally means smoother, clearer video.
- Last, but not least, Recorded Live Sessions: Chat hosts can now record videos from live chat sessions and so can you, the customer.Watching pre-recorded live shows cost 30% less than standard chat rates.
Pros:
- imlive has about 350 to 500 chathosts online
- imlive has many categories of webcam for you to choose from (see table below)
- imlive has cheap discounted show - the Happy Hour webcam show
- imlive lets you vote and rate your chathosts such that the webcam girls are all rated and ranked. Their ranking is shown on the "who's online now" page so you know who is popular.
- imlive has lots of theme parties
- imlive is a place for all colors, all nationalities and both amateur and pro models to show off.
Cons:
- The screen size of the video is a bit small compare to most other adult webcam sites
- Yeah, it's a paysite ;-)
VISIT THE SITE
Here's a complete list of all ImLive Niche Hosts:
- Girls Alone
- Amateurs
- Fetish
- Lesbians
- Asian
- Teen
- Couples (Hardcore)
- Black
- Gay
- Big Boobs
- Tranny
- MILF
- BBW
Best, Dalila
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( 3.1 / 2897 )Wednesday, May 3, 2006, 02:11 PM
Hi guys!
...thought I should make a short announcement ;-))
I just launched a new TGP - http://ladymf.com/ - absolutely free place daily updated
with mature, fat and big tits pictures and movies
Simply go to the main page or choose your category from the list below:
BBW Pictures
BBW Videos
Big Tits pictures
Big Tits Videos
Mature Pictures
Mature Videos
Granny Pictures
Granny Videos
Enjoy!
any feedback is appreciated ;-))
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( 2.9 / 2976 )Friday, April 28, 2006, 12:29 PM
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( 3.2 / 1431 )Friday, April 7, 2006, 01:51 AM
Hi, guys! Sorry for long absence... was a bit busy last days))
many excuses and I promise to post some really outrageous photos!
what about a nasty story for tonight?
GANG BANG
I could see my mans eyes watering, ass he worked hard on the large member of our now close friend. It did not take long before i noticed joes ball sack start to shrink and cock start to really throb. I knew it would not be long untill he blew his load and i was wet as fuck in antisapation. With that he grapped my mans head and screamed "Don't waist this bitch!" and his load was realised in Josh's mouth.
Carol screamed to him to spit it into my mouth and she held my head to the ground and opened my mouth. Josh turned over and put his lips to mine and kissed me. The hot load filled our mouths as we kissed. "Don't fucking swallow a drop bitch!" carol ordered. " Thats mine to eat!" she pushed Josh's head away and and put her head down. "Get up and split it in you fucking little bitch!" So i stood up and let the cum slide out of my mouth and into hers. She went crasy with excitment, rubbing her self and spreading the man juice all over her face.
"Right you little white slut, suck me hard again!" Joe ordered. I moved over to him and started to suck his cock, i could taste the cum on his shaft as i inserted his limp shaft into my mouth. Mean while as i worked on him Josh was hard at hork fucking Carol. She was really starting to squeal in a rage of pasion as his dick got deeper and deeper in her ass. I was getting distracked with her moans of excitment when Joe pulled out of my mouth and yelled "You will have plenyt of time to watch your hubby later whore. Right now you can lick my ass!" he knelt down behind Josh and I got to work on his ass. I could see his head poping up and down ass I licked his ass. I looked over for a second and saw him licking josh's ass as i did his.
"What you do to me I'll will do to you hubby, bitch!" With that i started to really work his hole, licking it and spltting in it really lubbing it up so i could insert a finger or 2. I started pushing my tounge in to his ass as i played with his balls, then i moved my tounge and pushed 2 fingers into him. I worked then in and out hard and fast. I knew my man was getting the same treatment cause i could hear him moan.
...to be continued
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( 3.2 / 2854 )Monday, March 27, 2006, 01:24 AM
One day a man went on a buissness trip to Florida.
He had saw this hooker and he asked "How much for a hand job?"
The hooker replied "100 Bucks"
The man said "100 Bucks, That's a lot of got damn money"
So the hooker pulled him to the side and said "See that Mercedes, I paid for that by giving hand jobs."
So he gave her the money and received the best hand he had ever had.
The next day he sees her and asks "How much for a head job?"
She said "200 dollars"
"200 dollars that's a lot of money"
She pulled him to the side and said "You see that yahat by the pier, I paid for that yahat by giving head jobs."
So he gives her the money, and get the best head job of his life
On hist last day in Florida he returns to the hooker and says "The hand job was good, the head job was great how much for the whole package."
"1000 dollars'
"1000 dollars that's a lot of god damn money"
So she pulled him to side and said "You see that island, I could afford that if i had a pussy."
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( 3 / 2453 )Monday, March 13, 2006, 08:28 PM
Members of the Taliban look at online classified ads in search of their perfect mate.
Below is a screen shot of the secret dating site where lonely Taliban men find the women of their dreams.
You MUST see it )) LOL
TALIBAN SINGLES
I don't know who created this picture but whowever it was - thanks for the laugh.
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( 3.7 / 4420 )Sunday, March 12, 2006, 08:24 PM
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Masturbation gives women the opportunity to explore their body while at the same time giving them a high degree of sexual freedom. It allows women the opportunity to experience sexual pleasure without relying on a partner, and to release sexual tension when they feel the need to. Masturbation can be very empowering teaching tool for women, it teaches them about their bodies, and how it responds to sexual stimulation. Many normal and healthy women only experience orgasm while masturbating, or it is their most intense type of orgasm. Masturbation is the first and most important sexual skill a woman should learn, as it holds the key to enjoying other forms of sexual activity. Ideally, this skill is learned prior to the age of five, but far too often it is not learned until a women is in her late teens or early twenties. This stems from the incorrect notion that children are entirely devoid of sexuality and they are to be protected from the 'evils' of sexuality. Children, especially infants, are incredibly curious individuals who will undoubtedly discover masturbation on their own. A parent, if they catch their child masturbating, should not chastise their child for it, but rather, tell them about private and public actions.
In spite of the sexual revolution, female masturbation is still somewhat taboo. Even though popular songs, movies, and television shows make mention of female masturbation, or the use of vibrators or dildos, it is not a common topic of discussion. Men and women are more likely to make mention of boys and men masturbating than girls and women. It is given that men and boys masturbate, but for girls and women, even though it is commonly accepted that it is okay for them to do it, they are not expected to. If a woman does not know that her peers masturbate and that they presume that she does, she is less likely to do it, or if she does, she feels guilty for doing it. Even if it is acceptable to do something, people are less likely to do it if they do not know that their peers do it. Since women do not generally talk about it, it is presumed that they do not masturbate.
A common misconception of women is that because they have a partner, they do not feel they should have to; or if they are single, masturbating would substantiate their single status. If they were not single, they would not have to masturbate. So instead of masturbating, they go in search of a partner. Which is not the solution and typically results in unfulfilled desires.
Since masturbation is seen as a "solo" activity, some women with partners do not feel it is appropriate for them to masturbate. If you have a partner, it is believed that your sexual activities with them should fulfill all your sexual needs. While a nice ideal, in real life, a lot of women's sexual needs are not met fully by their partner, no matter how good and loving a partner they have. For women with partners, it is important that they understand that it is perfectly healthy and normal for them to masturbate, and they should do so without feeling guilty. For many, if not most women, the frequency at which they masturbate should not change when they go from being single to having a sexual partner. Some women find they masturbate more when they have a partner, as having a partner makes them feel more sexual, and increases their desire for sex and sexual pleasure.
There are times in all relationships when your partner is not available for sex when you desire it, even when they sleep beside you. Couples frequently have different levels of sex drive, and expectations regarding physical intimacy. This is why women frequently masturbate secretively in the shower, or masturbate silently in the early morning hours while their sleeping partner lies beside them. Masturbating when you have a partner is normal and a woman should not feel ashamed for doing so, most women have probably done it at some point in their relationship. It is often a necessity. Forgoing masturbation and sexual pleasure because you have a partner does harm to you and your relationship because you will slowly begin to blame them for your sexual frustration. As your sexual frustration grows, so does your frustration with the relationship.
While it is extremely untrue, the majority of people believe that women are less sexual than men. We are led to believe that women think about sex and desire sex much less. Society creates outcasts of women who are openly sexual. This results in women believing they should not have strong sexual feelings and desires. Unfortunately, many women are ashamed to admit they become horny. This results in women introverting and denying their own sexual feelings and desires. While a woman's desire for sex may change with time as the result of hormonal influences, they are just as sexual as men. If a woman accepts that she is equally as sexual as a man, she is more likely to feel comfortable with her desire to masturbate.
The main reason a woman should masturbate is because it feels good. Women with strong sex drives may masturbate frequently, but they do so because it feels good, not because they are driven to. If it did not feel good, it is not likely that they would, no matter how aroused they were. A woman should not forgo masturbating just because she does not have a strong sex drive. Even if you have no desire for partner sex, you should still enjoy giving yourself pleasure. The fact that preadolescent girls masturbate proves that hormonally induced sex drives are not the only reason to masturbate. Young girls do it for no other reason than it feels good. Since it does feel good, there is no reason to expect women not to. There is nothing wrong with a woman giving herself pleasure on a daily basis, or less often if she so desires. For masturbation to be pleasurable, it does not have to end in orgasm. Masturbation may involve nothing more than placing your hands against your vulva when you go to sleep at night, because it feels good.
I do not want people to get the impression based on the above statements that all women have negative views of masturbation, or that all women need to masturbate. Women are increasingly developing very positive attitudes towards masturbation and the pleasure it can bring them. If given the opportunity, women will often discuss their masturbation habits with pride, without the least amount of guilt.
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Basic Masturbation Techniques
Women and girls masturbate in an endless list of ways. Common methods are, massaging of the clitoris with hands and fingers, rubbing the vulva up against pillows, bed cloths, stuffed animals, and furniture, etc. The vagina appears to play a limited role in the masturbation practices of women, but vaginal penetration during masturbation is by no means unusual or uncommon. Some women employ anal and/or nipple stimulation in addition to clitoral and vaginal stimulation.
It is important to understand that there is no "correct" or "right" way to masturbate. Some women feel they should be able to masturbate to orgasm using a different or more correct method because they hear other women do it that way. It is important to keep in mind that each woman's anatomy is slightly different and her psychological makeup is quite different. This results in every woman masturbating differently, even if they use the same basic technique. While some women can masturbate to orgasm employing several different techniques, others find they can reach orgasm only when they use the same method each time. There is nothing wrong with this. Due to conditioning and the differences in women's bodies, learning new techniques for some can be difficult or even impossible. If you are orgasmic with your current masturbation technique, feel free to experiment, but do not feel you have to reach orgasm in other ways. Remember, masturbation is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, no matter how you do it.
The Beginner
When you have relaxed your body, lie on a bed, or sit in a comfortable chair, and explore your nude or semi-nude body. Run your fingers and hands across your body. Explore your breasts and play with your nipples. Caress your legs and thighs. Cup your vulva in your hand and gently rub in small circles. Stimulate your body, but do not try to reach orgasm. Make yourself feel good. If you feel yourself get tense, stop what you are doing, breath deeply, and relax. Do this exercise as often as possible, but for no longer than 20 minutes per session. Do not tire or stress yourself out. The point of this exercise is to make you feel good while staying relaxed, not to have an orgasm. You want to feel a little aroused, but at peace, not compelled to go further.
After you become comfortable exploring and touching your body you will want to try more direct means of stimulating your vulva. Slip your fingers between the folds of your vulva and massage and play with your inner labia, perhaps pulling on them lightly or firmly. Slip your fingers up to the top of your vulva and place them on top of your clitoris. Gently move your fingers up and down, around, and perhaps even wildly jiggle them. Make the loose tissue covering your clitoris slide across the body and glans of your clitoris. If you feel a need to be filled, insert a finger or two into your vagina. You want to make yourself feel really good, but you do not want to intentionally try to have an orgasm. If an orgasm occurs, you want it to be a total surprise. If you are thinking about having an orgasm, you need to slow down, relax, and redirect your thoughts. You do not want your brain to know you are about to have an orgasm.
You probably will not experience orgasm the very first or first few times so do not try to. Just enjoy the pleasures of touching yourself. If you get to a point where you suddenly find your body is super tense, you are trying too hard. Try to enjoy yourself, not orgasm. You want to surprise yourself with an orgasm. If you feel yourself on the verge of orgasm, but cannot, you are probably trying too hard; you cannot force your body to have an orgasm. The more you concentrate on trying to have an orgasm, the less likely you are to have one.
Clitoral Stimulation
Using your hands and fingers, stimulate (rub, stroke, pinch, etc) the clitoris with one or more fingers or the palm of your hand. Some find direct contact with the clitoris too intense, and prefer stimulation near or around the clitoris. Others prefer to have a layer of clothing or some other fabric between the hand and clit. Try it both ways and see what works best for you.
G-Spot Stimulation
Inserting a vibrator or dildo into the vagina can help locate and stimulate your G-Spot and offers a feeling of fullness in the vagina. You can locate your G-spot with your fingers, but it's difficult to provide adequate stimulation through manual masturbation. Women who enjoy stimulation of the G-spot usually employ sexual toys to make it easier and more enjoyable.
Vibrators
Vibrators are used primarily for clitoral stimulation, though many women also use them for vaginal or anal stimulation. They also may be combined with other toys and used in any number of positions. A good, discrete alternative to a vibrator for clitoral or anal stimulation is a massage wand. However, massage wands cannot be used for vaginal or anal penetration. To check out a wide selection of sex toys, please check our sex toy store, Best Sex Toy Review.
Common, Everyday Objects
Rub your clitoris against any soft, non-abrasive object (e.g., a pillow, the corner of a couch, etc.) and see if you enjoy the stimulation it provides.
Showers
A detachable showerhead can be quite scintillating for just about any woman. The best shower available is the ones with the versatile control that switches the water from a steady stream to a pulsating jet spray. In hot tubs, avoid sending strong streams of water into the vagina; this can cause fatal air embolism.
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Anal Stimulation
The anus is quite sensitive to touch and many women enjoy stimulation of this area during masturbation or partner sex play. You can experiment on this highly erogenous area with your fingers or anal toys such as anal beads and anal dildos (better known as butt plugs).
Conclusion
In closing, there is no right way to masturbate and there is no specific number of times you should do it per week. As long as you feel comfortable with the frequency at which you masturbate and the pleasure it provides you, then keep on doing it. Masturbation is normal and should be pleasurable, so find out what you like the best and then show your partner, when you find one, how they can please you properly.
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